Keeping up with KyAnn.....
Never ever did I ever think that I would be posting a blog
inspired by a Kardashian interview.... hahah but here it goes :)
Last night before bed I was reading my trusty woman's handbook
(aka- Cosmo)
which is quite sadly enough becoming a broken record.... I mean
you can only put the same "mind blowing tips" 100 times before
you say okay.... we get it... But its fun to read the stories and find cute
make up, clothes and vacation ideas....
But thats besides the point... So here
we have the Novemeber issue of Cosmo with the Kardasians on the cover....
As if
we don't publicize them enough... So I was skeptical.... I mean I used to binge
watch them when the show first started but then after awhile I got over them
pretty quick.... They are kind of "over rated" But last night after
reading the interviews they did of each of them... they shed light of how they
feel about each other.... Everything they said was uplifting and empowering of
each other.... Which is refreshing because we need people that support one
another and make each other feel good....
The one that stuck out in my mind was Khloe on Kim... The way that she paints her sister in such a
good light..... made me feel inspired... She talked about how the media says
shes stuck on her self and conceited and takes to many selfies....
You know? that's because she CAN. She is one of the most beautiful
and highly publicized women in the world... the PEOPLE made her who she is....
She became mega famous and people wanted to follow her every move... but yet
when she does exactly that..... LETS everyone follow her EVERY move.... now all
of a sudden people think she is ridiculous and stupid? ( I was one of those
people myself as I said in the beginning- they have gotten over rated)
But then I realized that we live in the world where we make
everything OVERLY public..... we post selfies, we post our workout progress....
our meals.... our hopes, dreams and fears, we post our loves and our hobbies
and things we like. We follow people we like, things that interest us and
people that inspire us.... That is the way we have learned to live our lives...
through social media.... I feel that I almost can carry on a conversation
better through facebook, snap chat and texting then I can in person..... Sad
right? Im sure Im not alone in this....regardless of how people want to admit
this.... we HIDE behind our persona online.... we paint pictures of our glamorous,
happy life....
you don't see many people posting pictures of them - fresh faced
out of the shower without makeup- or when you are having a hard time with your spouse
or disciplining your children.... you leave the negative stuff in your life to
a minimum .. .... And if people are posting about a hard time in their life...
.who are you to judge? Give them moral support.... BE KIND!
So what's the deal with the people that are constant criticizers???
The people that are on the other side of the fence.... the closet
haters.... they do all those things themselves but then they have a hate parade
on anybody else??? I don't really understand.... We all go through good and bad and in between
and when we want to post something online it's because in some way shape or
form it's important to us.... and we want to share it with the people we
know.... But yet you still have the people who are like.... oh she posted a
photo again about her weight loss or so and so is constantly
posting selfies.... or so and so and their kids pictures are filling up my news
feed..... or this person and their over concern about politics and their opinion
seems to be the RIGHT opinion.... and then you proceed to say rude, negative
comments about it.... WHY?
You want to know what I do when I see someone's post that I'm not really interested in? I just keep on
scrolling..... if it's not something I care to much about... then I just leave
it at that.... easy enough. Bashing people behind their backs isn't doing you
any good? Trying to find a single flaw in someone else isn't making you feel
better or making you a better person..... If I don't like someone, something or have a problem.... I can tell you this, it's not in my news feed. I don't surround myself with things that I could care less about.... and I respect the people that have different likes, interests and opinions than me... just because I don't care for one small thing that they say or post doesn't mean I have a right to bash them about it or that I have a problem with that person themselves.
I thought about a post I saw a while ago.... if girls would treat
each other as they do when they meet other drunk girls in the bar bathroom...
the world would be a much more positive place.... I laughed because its
true.... having some liquid courage makes you apt to say what's on your mind and
also makes you, yourself feel more confident. Loudly almost yelling to a
stranger... OHHHH HEYY thats a cute outfit!! You're so pretty!!! as you stumble
out the bathroom door ..... yuppp been there, done that.
But what is sad..... Is we shouldn't only treat each other nicely
when we are 10 sheets to the wind.... we should just be KIND always. Women go
through so much! And we all have so much to relate to and have common ground!
So why are most girls in constant competition with others instead of being a
proud grown woman who is happy to see another woman happy regardless of you
being best friends, or mere acquaintances?
So whether it be in person, publicly or over the world wide
web.... we as women should be KIND to one another. So if you're a man, or woman
alike... reading this post.... take my thought process into consideration....
Its something I've noticed and hear of happening in my life recently... and it
made me take a long hard look at the people I surround myself with.... And like
I've said in plenty of other posts before.... the people that are good people
in my life.... THANK YOU.
To all my lady friends-
You is strong, you is beautiful, you is important. Make each and
every day happy and healthy and full of KINDNESS.
"You can tell who the strong women are... they are the ones
building each other up, instead of tearing each other down.' - Unknown.
xoxox,
Ky
